Wednesday, April 05, 2006

tis past few weeks hav been chionging a lot of work....maybe its is partly due to the fact tad i dun do hw during the weekends =.=......jc life quite stress.....many frens saying it too.....even if they dun say also can see 1 so no need hide =)

sometimes....i feel lik i dun understand the world and my frens.....i noe tad life is unfair but y?
they say the eyes are the window to a persons soul and how true it is......however it is still very diff to tell wad they are tinking.....sometimes.....i look at the people around me and tink.....all these ppl.....preoccupied with their own tots and problems....nobody wans to talk.....nobody wans to share......they hide their feelings.....they do not wan others to noe.....everybody in thier own world....too busy with their own problems.....no time to woory about other ppls problems.....because of tis.....they sink into their uncontendment.....they feel tad nobody cares.....how tru.....cause everybody is too preoccupied with their own feelings and do not wan to share....

Y?......y do ppl lik to brood over thier own sadness?....perhaps it is because they feel tad it is pointless to say it out?......maybe.....if we are able to admit our misery and tots......and are willing to treat ur frens problem as mor important as urs.....will u feel better and realise the true and forgotten meaning of frenship....and perhaps understand how i feel.....cause frenship cannot occur if only 1 party is willing....andd the same goes to whatever relationships we may hav....

what is frendship?

how do u define the word friend?

how do u noe tad ur fren is actually ur fren?

how many true friends can 1 hav?

THE NUMBER OF TRUE FRIENDS A PERSON CAN HAV, IS THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE HE OR SHE CAN COMPLETELY TRUST.....but most importantly.....u must allow urself to trust others.....so tad others can trust u.....sit back and ask thyself.....do u really understand ur friend?
however the more significant question is.....do u WANT to understand him or her?....yes i understand....a hand cannot clap on it's own....but if u do not take the first step.....who will?....it is the same as tinking....if no 1 respect me i wun respect others....but if u dun respect others....who will respect u?......in the end u will feel very bad inside.....and may even tink tad it is all his or her fault......same goes to understandin friends......in the end....u may feel tad u are very unlucky as u hav no true friends.....y do people like simple people.....cause they are easy to understand!!.....i am sure many would hav encounter a person who is so stuck up in his or her own world tad the person is oblivious and insensitive to the world?....this are the people who do not wish to understand others or be understood.....and they may not even understand y ppl hate them so much....

if u have frens who can understnad u....and are willing to help u when u are down....isn't it nice?....it is sad....however tad ppl dun realise that they hav to be the 1 taking the first step...... or even if som1 is trying....u dun even notice.....tad is y some people feel tad they hav no frens or tad they can't make frens cause ppl do not understand the meaning of frendship....

in my opinion....a frend whom u do not truly understand, whom u do not wish to learn more about him or her and whom do not understand or make an effort to understand u is just a fren.....but 4 one who does.....it is a gift from urself.....

i hope tis will help all those who are feeling depress or whatsoever....k i end my tots here too tired to continue and chi haven finished =.=

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